https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1lCfTpAQjY
Q：你愛你的愛人嗎？是哪一天哪一刻you fell in love with him/her？這很難衡量對不對。
wrong mindset → quit easily
no results can’t be measured = it must not be effective
it‘s about consistency
運動9小時 vs 每天運動20min，後者才是關鍵
it’s the daily practive of all the monotonous little boring things matter the most
A：是Ta做的很多小事，比如早上的問好、疲憊一日後的安慰…讓你開始慢慢愛上他。
the accumulation of all those little things
A test for a good leaders:
if you ask sb. how their day is going you actually care about the answer.
this is how people become success